I safespot a lot - mainly because it's fun, and I don't have to worry about being brutalized by several alliance all by my lonesome (which happens to me frequently, by the way). And no, I'm not a backpeddler, and I'm definitely not a sadist.
While I recognize all the hate towards safespotters, I'm fairly certain it's just rage. At least most of it, anyway. You probably hopped on here after being killed while sending stuff at the mailbox while farming for Earthstrike/Rockfury Bracers to complain. I don't know, but it sure sounds like it. I disagree with all the hate towards safespotting. I've been killed by Alliance mages safespotting all the same - I hate it - but hell, it's a PvP server. Package deal.
However, what I do agree with is the inconsistency with this whole "safespotting" thing. I spent a lot of time killing Alliance from the roof of Light's Hope. I even fought other mages whilst on the roof, you know, cool little duels with them. Well anyway, not too surprisingly some Alliance reported me (thanks for the epic Twitter banner, by the way), and later I ended up having a GM (lvl 61 night elf male with Atiesh) port up on the roof with me and ask me how I got up there. Now I figured he thought that I was fly hacking. But I told him exactly how to blink up to the roof as a mage. He said that it was against the rules to "abuse bugs/exploits", and told me to leave the roof, which, of course, I did. As soon as I jumped down, I was murdered by the three Alliance using the ground safespot. I was so... damn confused, to say the least.
So I was a little pissed and started reporting every mage who was safespotting to attack me, and I was told that safespotting was allowed. I still don't have a clear answer. Is the roof of LHC not considered safespotting? Do some of the GMs follow a non-existent rule? I don't know. I was very confused - hell, I still am.
But regardless, I do appreciate the work you guys do on the server, and I understand how stretched thin your resources may be. I don't think safespotting should be punishable. I do sympathize with you guys being ganked by safespotting mages on pillars, but I still just want to say...
Suck it up. PvP Server.